Elena has dreams. She lives in a tiny little village on an olive tree-covered hill overlooking the Mediterranean sea. This little village is so picturesque. Impressive nature, quaint little houses, scenic sea views, and where everyone knows everyone.
She was born and raised in this little village. Her family is loud and noisy. The village community tight and traditional.
Elena is a gorgeous woman. Smart, elegant, and funny. Yet also a bit introverted, a perfectionist, and an overthinker.
She has been working in the village shop for years, serving the same people she grew up with and has known her whole life.
As a little girl, Elena dreamt of having a big family of her own. Of becoming a mom of a bunch of bright girls with personality and wit, and strong boys with charisma and loyalty. And with a loving man next to her.
Years passed by though. At a predictable and comfortable pace. Until one day she woke up. It was her 50th birthday…
And she was alone.
No children singing her birthday songs, no husband congratulating her and embracing her.
Just dead silence…
She got dressed, went to work, and celebrated her birthday the way she always did with the same people she had spent her birthdays with her whole life.
And even though she had a smile on her face, she secretly felt disappointed, unfulfilled, and sad.
This was not how she envisioned her life to be. Yet she felt stuck. And it felt that it was too late. That she was missing out and was turning into this sour, resentful, old spinster.
She wondered what was left of all her hopes, dreams, and wishes.
The key to turning her hopes, dreams, and wishes into a reality
Now, Elena’s life couldn’t be much different from mine. Yet we connected in beautiful woman-to-woman conversations.
From our talks, I could feel that she was waiting. Waiting for her life to change. Waiting for her knight in shining armor to knock on her door. Waiting for being blessed with a family. Waiting to be happy.
Deep down, she felt not in control of her own life, but basically at the mercy of others, of higher powers, and the universe.
And she started to blame her community, her family, and her remote charming little village life.
Being consumed by her disappointment and heartache, Elena missed something extremely important though. Which is the key to turning her hopes, dreams, and wishes into a reality:
She didn’t create opportunities
While she was waiting for her life to start, she was not taking any steps to create movement. She was not seeing new people. Not picking up new routines. Not doing anything that would create any possibility to meet men, find love, and create a family.
How can she be doing the same old thing, but expect a different outcome?
What did you do differently?
And the same goes for you.
We’re getting close to the end of the year.
Just take a moment, and go back to New Year’s Eve one year ago, the start of 2022. You had hopes and dreams to make it a better year, with resolutions to do things differently.
Looking back now, what actually happened the last 12 months?
Perhaps you’ve been in survival mode? Perhaps you had unforeseen challenges? Perhaps your year wasn’t as fulfilling and successful as expected? Perhaps you are still having the same old hopes, dreams, and wishes like last year?
Now question yourself: have you actually created opportunities?
What did you do differently?
Actually doing things differently is scary, and can feel so unsafe. So big chance you have found yourself procrastinating last year, self-sabotaging, and coming up with all kinds of excuses why it wasn’t the right time yet.
But if nothing changes, nothing changes, right?!
Turn things around
Therefore let’s turn things around for you.
SO THAT YOU CAN START 2023 NOT WITH JUST THE SAME HOPES AND DREAMS, BUT WITH FINALLY BREAKING THROUGH YOUR INNER GLASS CEILINGS, SO THAT YOU FEEL HAPPY, CONFIDENT, SUCCESSFUL, CALM, AND FULFILLED once and for all.
So you will yell less at your kids. So you’ll have a more loving relationship. So you finally get that promotion or start that business. So you’ll be more visible, and more creative. So the money starts coming in. So you’ll not feel like a fraud anymore flirting with burnout. So you get back to your old energetic self. So you won’t hide and put yourself last all the time…
Let’s do this. It’s time.
First step is to book a chat with me via this link:
