‘Ambitious women struggling with burnout don’t need coaching, but someone to come clean their house, a meal box, or a babysitter. So that something is taken off their plate, instead of added to it.’
So wrote a business coach on her Facebook.
Obviously meant to provoke a lot of reactions.
And yet, she got me thinking.
I get what she is saying, and at the same time, this is also the festering problem of why so many women stay stuck and in survival mode.
And why so many women have tried everything but are disappointed again and again.
Why so many coaches fail….
QUICK-FIXES
Action taking
The moment you are in survival mode, stressed, insecure, traumatized and frustrated you are “switched on”.
The moment you are stuck, panicking and unhappy, you, like many women, may take action.
You start doing things:
Work even harder to prove you can handle it.
Flip the calendar and plan tightly just to have some feeling of control.
Endlessly diving into podcasts, blogs, webinars, and books to find a possible quick insight and easy solution.
Snapping at husband and kids to take some pressure off.
Arranging that help, meal box, or babysitter to make your life a little easier.
We think that because we start or stop doing things differently, things in our lives will change and we will feel differently.
But this is an illusion. A quick-fix.
And not sustainable.
Because before you know it, you’ve just fallen back into your old patterns and blocks.
Don’t do but think
In fact, your blockages do not arise from what you do or do not do. But arise because of what you deep-down think, believe and feel.
After all, if you keep thinking what you have always thought, you keep believing what you have always believed. If you keep believing what you have always believed, you keep doing what you have always done. If you keep doing what you’ve been doing, what always happened to you keeps happening to you.
You can imagine that when you feel insecure, scared and not good enough you do or don’t do very different things than when you feel confident, secure and strong.
So are you really looking for a long-term solution you will have to start working on your inner world.
And because you have your own blind spots.
And it’s really hard to do that on your own, so gather your courage and call in a coach or therapist.
Hit a wall
And then you hit a wall….
A wall of terribly long waiting lists, a wall of unaffordable and endless coaching programs, a wall of so many coaches that you don’t know where to turn, a wall of too good to be true, a wall of quick fixes, disappointment and little lasting and sustainable results.
This has to change and it can change!
Did you know…
- You can get help quickly without a long waiting list
- I am a recognized and accredited therapist so that sessions and programs can be (partially) reimbursed by the health insurance (if your are Dutch)
- I specialize in the female brain and issues that women face and my sessions are therefore seamlessly linked to you as a woman
- My programs are fast and thorough and have proven results
- You can also schedule separate sessions that are very impactful
- You can schedule sessions either via Zoom or in the practice
- You can schedule a free and no-obligation intake call
Let’s meet
The free and non-binding 1-on-1 intake call via Zoom is a call in which we will get to know each other better.
We will have a woman-to-woman conversation.
Together we will discuss your current situation, your challenges, blockages, your patterns, and your needs. We discuss your dreams, hopes, desires, aspirations, and possible outcomes.
And then we map out the gap. What self-sabotage do you have to break through and what steps do you need to take? And how can I help you do that? We make a plan and set things in motion so that in no time you feel happy, calm, good enough, confident, strong, successful and fulfilled again.
Schedule your call now via THIS LINK.
You are welcome!
PS. Alone you get far, together you get much further. But it takes two to tango of course. In a 1:1 introductory meeting we will make a plan together that suits you perfectly, so that once and for all you will stop holding yourself back and you can actually become the woman you have always been deep inside. Schedule your free appointment in my calendar right now: CLICK HERE
